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The Gospels

John 17: 6:  (Jesus is praying)
“I have revealed you to those whom you gave me out of the world. They were yours; you gave them to me and they have obeyed your word. 
7 Now they know that everything you have given me comes from you. 
8 For I gave them the words you gave me and they accepted them. They knew with certainty that I came from you, 
   and they believed that you    sent me. 
9 I pray for them. I am not praying for the world, but for those you have given me, for they are yours. 
10 All I have is yours, and all you have is mine. And glory has come to me through them. 
11 I will remain in the world no longer, but they are still in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father, 
   protect them by the power of your name, the name you gave me, so that they may be one as we are one. 
12 While I was with them, I protected them and kept them safe by that name you gave me. None has been lost except the one doomed to    
    destruction so that Scripture would be fulfilled. …

* ”I am not praying for the world, but for those you have given me.” 
“None has been lost, except the one doomed to destruction so that scripture would be fulfilled."

* Satan and Judas. Perhaps the two most miserable creatures in existence, because they both cohabited with God, yet both rebelled against Him, as they knew Him, and tried to destroy the God they knew.

John 20: 19:
"On the evening of that first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jewish leaders, 
Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” 
20 After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord. 
 21 Again Jesus said, “Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” 
22 And with that he breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit. 
23 If you forgive anyone’s sins, their sins are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.” 

* “…If you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.” 
* Wow. I have an article on this verse in the 'Auxiliary' section of this website.

John 2: 
"13 When it was almost time for the Jewish Passover, Jesus went up to Jerusalem. 
14 In the temple courts he found people selling cattle, sheep and doves, and others sitting at tables exchanging money. 
15 So he made a whip out of cords, and drove all from the temple courts, both sheep and cattle; 
    he scattered the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables. 
16 To those who sold doves he said, “Get these out of here! "

Luke 23:
“33 When they came to the place called the Skull, they crucified him there, along with the criminals—one on his right, the other on his left. 
34 Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.”

Luke 18:

"Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up. 
2 He said: “In a certain town there was a judge who neither feared God nor cared what people thought. 
3 And there was a widow in that town who kept coming to him with the plea, ‘Grant me justice against my adversary.’
4 “For some time he refused. But finally he said to himself, ‘Even though I don’t fear God or care what people think, 
5 yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will see that she gets justice, so that she won’t eventually come and attack me!’”
6 And the Lord said, “Listen to what the unjust judge says. 
7 And will not God bring about justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night? Will he keep putting them off? 
8 I tell you, he will see that they get justice, and quickly. However, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on the earth?”

* "7 And will not God bring about justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night? Will he keep putting them off? 
8 I tell you, he will see that they get justice, and quickly." 

* Why would someone cry night and day about someone they have forgiven?

Luke 17: 
Jesus said to his disciples: “Things that cause people to stumble are bound to come, but woe to anyone through whom they come. 
2 It would be better for them to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around their neck than to cause one of these little ones to stumble. 
3 So watch yourselves. “If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them. 
4 Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them.”

* Sin, rebuke. Then either repentance and forgiveness, - or refusal to repent and the consequences. That's the formula, eh?

Luke 12:
8 “I tell you, whoever publicly acknowledges me before others, the Son of Man will also acknowledge before the angels of God. 
9 But whoever disowns me before others will be disowned before the angels of God. 
10 And everyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, 
    but anyone who blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven.

Luke 10: 
8 “When you enter a town and are welcomed, eat what is offered to you.
9 Heal the sick who are there and tell them, ‘The kingdom of God has come near to you.’
10 But when you enter a town and are not welcomed, go into its streets and say,
11 ‘Even the dust of your town we wipe from our feet as a warning to you. Yet be sure of this: The kingdom of God has come near.’
12 I tell you, it will be more bearable on that day for Sodom than for that town.

Mark 11:

"24 Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. 
25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”

Matthew 25: 
“31 When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne. 
32 All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another 
    as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 
33 He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. 34 “Then the King will say to those on his right, 
    ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 
35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, 
    I was a stranger and you invited me in, 
36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’ 
37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 
38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 
39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ 
40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ 
41 “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 
42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 
43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, 
    I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’ 
44 “They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, 
    and did not help you?’ 
45 “He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’ 
46 “Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.” 

* This is the great, final, terrible exhibit of God’s unforgiveness.

Matthew 26: 45:
"Then he returned to the disciples and said to them, “Are you still sleeping and resting? Look, the hour has come, and the Son of Man is delivered into the hands of sinners. 
46 Rise! Let us go! Here comes my betrayer!” 
47 While he was still speaking, Judas, one of the Twelve, arrived. With him was a large crowd armed with swords and clubs, 
    sent from the chief priests and the elders of the people. 
48 Now the betrayer had arranged a signal with them: “The one I kiss is the man; arrest him.” 
49 Going at once to Jesus, Judas said, “Greetings, Rabbi!” and kissed him. 
50 Jesus replied, “Do what you came for, friend.”

Matthew 19: 7:
“Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?” 
8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 
9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” 
10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.” 
11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. 
12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—
    and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.” 

* Is divorce unforgiveness, or is it something else? This is edgy scripture, a hard, square box with sharp edges that Christians try to carry around in their wet paper bag called ‘my theology’. Scripture doesn’t fit well with a lot of personal theologies. So, how does Christ’s permission to divorce fit with our clamor for unconditional forgiveness; while at the same time, people wanting the church bless non-adultery divorces? 

 Matthew 18:21: 
"Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” 
22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. 
23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 
24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. 
25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt. 
26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 
27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go. 
28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins. 
    He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded. 
29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’ 
30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 
 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened. 
32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 
33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 
34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed. 
35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.” 

* I underlined "fellow servant' in the passage above. 

Jesus, in Matthew 18 15: 
“If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over. 
16 But if they will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’ 17 If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, 
    treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector. 
18 “Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. 

* So, here is the game plan, as I see it, detailed in Matthew 18: 

1) Talk in private with the offender. No settlement? Go to step 2.
2) Bring two or three with you. Fault will be determined there. No settlement? Go to step 3.
3) Public rebuke in church on Sunday. No repentance?
4) Consider the person to be a spiritual outsider. Logically, stripped of all authority and responsibilities in the church.
5) This apparently includes considering them spiritually unforgiven by God. While we initially repent before God for our mistakes, we are forgiven, if we refuse to repent for an old matter that resurfaces, did we really repent at all?
6) Jesus said, “brother or sister”. He didn’t mention unbelievers, or did I miss something? 

* Let me make a parable about scripture and food. Sometimes we eat at a salad bar, where there is no central focus of the meal, 
and we nibble a bit of this and a bit of that. We form an opinion of the whole dining experience by the parts we chose to eat, because there is no central focus of the meal. Some Bible doctrines are like that. However, on Thanksgiving Day, for most families, the turkey is the centerpiece and the anchor of the dinner. 
 Likewise, some theological issues have no central piece of scripture to build a theology around, so theology is formed by accumulating all available scripture on the topic. I think this not the case with forgiveness. While every scripture matters, an Alpha-Scripture can change our view of less complete or culturally-vague scripture. When an Alpha-verse exists on a topic, then interpretations of other scripture must submit to the plain teachings of the Alpha-Scripture. Agree or disagree? Matthew 18 is the centerpiece and the anchor of forgiveness doctrine. From what I can see, every interpretation and misinterpretation can be tested against Matthew 18.

Matthew 10: 34:
“Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 
35 For I have come to turn “‘a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law— 
36 a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household."

* Continuing in reverse gear, Jesus, Matthew 6: 9 

“This, then, is how you should pray: ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name,
10 your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
11 Give us today our daily bread.
12 And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.’
14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 
15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. 

* Some will say, “ Matthew 6 proves unconditional forgiveness.” I question that assertion, given the weight of the other scripture listed here, especially Matthew 18, thus inserting my opinion that confession and repentance, as stated in Matthew 18, is a requirement for forgiveness. 

Matthew 5: 31:
“It has been said, ‘Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.’ 
32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, 
    and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” 

* True or False, divorcing because of adultery is a type of unforgiveness? And how many professing-Christians, 
who divorced for unacceptable reasons and have remarried others, are chanting the forgiveness-chorus? 

Mathew 5: 43:
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 
44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 
45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, 
    and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous." 

*Jesus said about enemies, ‘love’ and ‘pray for’, which are both steps we can take to help people to repent. I don't see any verse that commands us to forgive our enemies in that terminology.

Matthew 5:
 23 “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, 
24 leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift. 



* Remember, Jesus came to earth to do a great reset on religion. He was calibrating the mindsets of Israelites to believe that people could be forgiven. This wasn’t the case in Israel at the time. The Pharisees loved to find guilty people and advocate their stoning. And we also need to broach the idea about how unconditional forgiveness of the unrepentant can mislead those unrepentant people into thinking they are forgiven by God - when they are not. 

* Going back to 1 John 1:8, 
8 If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. 
9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 
10 If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us."
 
* If a parent forgives an unconfessing, unrepentant, yet convicted murderer of their daughter who won’t disclose the location of her body, 
has God forgiven him? I think not. Then, are her parents really obligated to forgive him? If the martyred saints under the throne of God can crave vengeance for their own blood, what about the parents of dead, missing daughters?  
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